Affectionately to the expatriate children
There are children who have the opportunity to live and study in diaspora with their parents. At the same time, there are children who do not get their care because the parent lives and earns a living abroad. Children belonging to the first category are more blessed than the children of the second category. The reason for this is the care of parents, quality of life and other material facilities. So expatriate children need to be grateful to God and their parents and not be overwhelmed by it all by chance.
Every moment should be spent with a definite purpose. Have you noticed the aimless children? They are generally lazy and mischievous. Part of their assignment is to have the children write about their past, future and present at the world famous Harvard University. It will get 5 percent marks. You can try it yourself.
Time will pass very quickly. You are not last year’s students this year. Become better students every year. You have to work hard to get a good certificate as a good child. To excel in studies, to foster communication and to acquire knowledge in sports training, these three should be achieved during the study period as part of personal development.
There are few children in the diaspora who show equal interest in all the above three things. But they will be on top. It is essential to excel in multi-talent development, self-confidence etc. There are so many opportunities in the diaspora. Girls also need to acquire competence in these three areas according to their ability. It is essential to be aware of all these for holistic personality development.
It can be said that the opportunities for non-resident students are as wide as the earth. In recent years they have been getting ample opportunities to develop their soft skills. Being able to acquire good speaking skills in English, Arabic, Hindi and Urdu languages apart from mother tongue is a noteworthy advantage of non-resident students. This helps them to get employment not only in foreign countries including Europe but also in America.
Is it not enough to study for a job or to pass a competitive exam? More than that, you should gain the strength to pass the exam of life. Even if you fail, you should learn from it and prepare for new progress. Cheating, fraud and artifice on teachers should be avoided at a young age. Do not accept such people as friends. Be diligent in doing proper homework and assignments yourself. Live every moment with the mental integrity of being a model student.
Public service is an important quality that should be inculcated in children at an early age. In America and Europe, children have the opportunity to spend part of their time in hospitals and caring for the sick. Although there are few official opportunities for public service in the Gulf countries, one can find opportunities for public service there by connecting with various organizations and returning home on vacation. Through it, children can develop their emotional intelligence.
There will be no children without mobile phones. Using it playing various games and always checking WhatsApp and Facebook can distract from studies and create serious consequences. Your skill lies in using such devices with intelligent discrimination. Even if the parents are not always with him, he must be aware of a force that is always watching him.
Many children are seen blaming their parents. Avoid the tone of criticism and instead remember with gratitude the love and kindness they shower you with. Hindu philosophy also dictates respect for mother, father, guru and God. Take parents and teachers as your role models. Let them see with their eyes the respect and love that is formed in your mind. That’s what they really expect from you. The eagerness to learn mother tongue will also be good for you.
The Prophet’s saying is famous that five things should be used before grasping five things. Those five things are:
- Use youth before growth
- Utilize health before illness
- Use prosperity before poverty
- Vacancy period before employment
- Make use of life before death.
If children are more careful about how to get along with others, how to use their time effectively, and how to spend their money, they can reap the benefits later in life.